Why Women Don’t Wanna Be Perceived As Sluts

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A “slut” is a woman who throws herself at men, has sex with them easily, and usually does so with multiple partners. (Fortunately for them, she doesn’t charge anything in return except for their validation and approval…)

In order to better understand why women act the way they do, we first need to ask:
Why don’t they want to be perceived as sluts? And: Why do sluts sleep with a lot of men?
Well, allow me to answer these questions:

Most women want to be perceived as high status females, so they have better chances of attracting and keeping high status males. High status males tend to have the option of choosing their partners from a large variety of women, so in order to win this particular type of successful men, women need to show that they’re the best and the hottest women around. (That’s why women compete with one another.)

Let’s take a look at this issue from a woman’s perspective: If you want to be one of the best and hottest women around, you can’t show people that you’re easy to have sex with because it lowers your value.
How come being a “slut” lowers your value?

Women who easily have sex, usually don’t think and act like high status people. High status people (i.e. the more attractive people) think highly of themselves and project success.
Low self-esteem may prevent a woman from acting and projecting that she’s a woman of quality.
A woman may act like a slut to get validation and approval, in order to reinforce her low self-esteem.
A woman may also suffer from a physical or psychological problem that lowers her self-esteem and keeps her from thinking about herself as a high status woman. She may act like a weak person and choose the wrong ways to succeed in life. Therefore, acting like a slut means one has issues.

(You should know that if one doesn’t think highly of him or herself and doesn’t believe they deserve to be treated with respect, other people will react the same way. In other words, those who appreciate themselves will draw the same behavior from others.)

A woman who has issues with herself (slut issues) appears much less attractive and desperate.
Acting like a slut makes you seem desperate; and if you’re desperate it means that no one wants you. This behavior is perceived by women to be a big no no.
Desperate women aren’t perceived to be high status women and may encounter difficulties attracting high status men. (Well, at least not for more than a one-night stand, if the high status man doesn’t have anything or anyone better to do…)

Men tend to give more value and respect to women who don’t surrender themselves sexually quickly.
The “prize” for NOT getting any action early in the game is more meaningful and valuable than the “prize” a man gets with no effort.

If a man gets to know a girl before he has sex with her, all kinds of feelings are developed towards her, and sex with feelings for a woman is better than sex without feelings for her.
By putting off sex, men are being “forced” to develop fantasies about having sex with that girl (it’s inevitable) and those fantasies, with time, create anticipation.
By “forcing” a man to get to know you and want you BEFORE you have sex with him (that is if you’re a woman of course…) you have more chances of him calling you the next day.

Also, a man will love and protect a new “purchase” (i.e. new girlfriend) more if he invests time, effort, and money in it, than if he just gets the same “product” as a “gift.”
Cheap women are just cheap, and most women don’t want to be perceived as cheap in order to not lose respect and status.

I must add that MANY women don’t have a problem sleeping around with lots of guys and still live well with themselves.
Some even really like being slutty and get turned on by it.
What women DO have a problem with is that people who know them could find out about their cheep behavior and will start a rumor that they’re nothing but big sluts.
This terrible scenario can diminish their values in society. Therefore, their chances of finding a really great self-respecting man dramatically drop. Men who are attracted to sluts will usually be only the ones who are searching for it: Not the most high status men around.


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